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Tricia Keegan

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The waiting room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 5:24 PM
I have noticed there is always someone on the board who is waiting for results of a various scan or test. We all know how difficult the waiting for reslults can be! There is a lot of anxiety that comes along with this.I like to be able to follow up with people, but sometimes it is very hard to keep track of everyone and sometimes these individuals go MIA. I thought it would be a good idea to start a thread for those of us who are well....in the Waiting Room.
Soooo.... Have a pain, and waiting for your bone scan results? Having a PET scan or MRI? Mammogram? Ultrasound?
This is the place to be for support and encouragment. So grab a seat, pick up a magazine or have a cup of coffee....
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Tricia Keegan...From Ireland Dx July '05 IDC 3/9 nodes pos..triple positive..a/c x 4..Taxol/herceptin x 12
Herceptin 1yr ..rads x35 oophorectomy Aug '06
Currently taking Arimidex /Zometa 1 x yearly
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 5:48 PM
Great idea Tricia!  

Hug,
Elaine
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Tricia Keegan

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Re:The waitng room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 5:51 PM
Thanks Elaine, but cant take the credit as got the idea from another site.  I do think it'll be welocme here though too:)
Tricia Keegan...From Ireland Dx July '05 IDC 3/9 nodes pos..triple positive..a/c x 4..Taxol/herceptin x 12
Herceptin 1yr ..rads x35 oophorectomy Aug '06
Currently taking Arimidex /Zometa 1 x yearly
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 6:00 PM
Tricia,
Great Idea!!!!!  The tech that did my mammo the other day told me that they are changing the way they do things and IF (what do you mean IF!!!)  I wanted to wait for results (which they always have given to everyone right away!)  that I had to tell them when I made the appointment that I was a BC survivor) so they would schedule it when there is someone to read it right away.  Something new but NOT good news. 

So what does everyone do while in the "waiting room?"  I either curl up and feel sorry for myself or get busy and do extra cleaning.
Hope and strength,
Julie S
Bothell, WA
dx 5/07 IDC
lumpectomy 6/14/07 1.5cm
er/pr + Nodes negative
finished rads 9/13
Tamoxfen 9/07- 8/09
Arimidex 8/09-
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 6:34 PM
I agree, great idea to have a "waiting room".  After the fiasco I went through in December (new onc NOT calling me to tell me I had a hematoma/seroma that needed to be drained) after the mammogram and ultrasound; the newest onc (my choice this time-not on the insurance list) made sure I would KNOW before I left the radiology dept.  She wrote a script that requested the same MD who had done my biopsy to come in and look at the ultrasound results as they were being done. That MD and I talked about the differences in treatment from the East Coast to the West Coast; I showed her my brachytherapy pictures; and she told me chances are I will always have the hematoma, although it is a little smaller in size.  She thought my scar from the lumpectomy looked great, and I felt a whole lot more settled when I left radiology this time.
Without the support this time, turning to this waiting room would have been a great idea to keep me from freaking out and thinking the worst!
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Monday, June 07, 2010 9:12 PM
Great idea - I can see that it has already morphed a bit into a site where we can come to for support and ideas on how to handle the wait.  I love you guys.

I posted on radiation, but I'll repost (restate?) it here.  I went for a followup mri at my husband's hospital because it took my insurance, and my original radiologist didn't take any insurance. It went well, untill the part when the one person in the entire hospital who reads breast mris was out that day. The next day we found out she was out for the week.  I wish they had told me before the test - just out of courtesy, you know? So, when I finally call for the results, I am told it wasn't ready - they were waiting for a mammo, and had never told me. My husband flipped. I got the disc, and went back to my beloved radiologist, who, btw saved my life by finding this teeny tiny 3 mm cancer that had already spread beyond the sentinal node!  She did a mammo and us, read the mri and  I am fine.  I get another mammo of the affected breast, and us of both in 3 months, then mammo and us of both in 6 mos, then mammo of one, us of both in 9 then another mri next year.  Unless my onc decided differently, of course.

And how to handle the wait?  I tried not to think of it.  I had this little lymph node that really really worried me, so I think that as long as I was doing what I needed to do - get the testing done, and get it read as soon as I could, emotional avoidance for a little while worked for me.  I'm not advocating avoidance in a way that interferes with treatment or testing - that is bad, you need to get done what you need to get done. Just that for me at that time, I had done the mri, I was told to wait the week, so avoidance worked for me, and enabled me to function with all the rest of the craziness that was going on.  oh yes! I forgot to mention!  The week  of the mri my mom got her hip replaced and my aunt died, so I had plenty to keep me busy with and avoid what I couldn't change anyway.
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Farla
dx 8/09, R double lumpectomy, invasive mixed DCIS/LCIS
ER + PR + Her -
1/3 Sentinel pos. 1/15 nodes pos
 Stage 2A  Grade 2, Nottingham 6
chemo A/C x4, Taxol x 4 started 9/21/09 DONE!!!
femara  started 2/5/10
rads  2/8/10 DONE!!!
Now - osteoporosis?  Vit D, calcium, and a baby aspirin to boot!
Tricia Keegan

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Re:The waitng room!!! - Tuesday, June 08, 2010 4:07 AM
Thanks for all your comments ladies, I think this thread will be popular and it's reassuring just to have someone send good wishes at a time we're vulnerable and worried:)

Sometimes we miss people posting on other forums so I thought it may help to have one place we can all look into, and hopefully no one will be here waiting too long!
Tricia Keegan...From Ireland Dx July '05 IDC 3/9 nodes pos..triple positive..a/c x 4..Taxol/herceptin x 12
Herceptin 1yr ..rads x35 oophorectomy Aug '06
Currently taking Arimidex /Zometa 1 x yearly
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Tuesday, June 08, 2010 4:37 AM
Tricia -you are so great, Thank you
Farla
dx 8/09, R double lumpectomy, invasive mixed DCIS/LCIS
ER + PR + Her -
1/3 Sentinel pos. 1/15 nodes pos
 Stage 2A  Grade 2, Nottingham 6
chemo A/C x4, Taxol x 4 started 9/21/09 DONE!!!
femara  started 2/5/10
rads  2/8/10 DONE!!!
Now - osteoporosis?  Vit D, calcium, and a baby aspirin to boot!
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Tuesday, June 08, 2010 9:54 AM


Wonderful thread !!  Thank you so much for putting it here. I go Thurs for my first MRI since surgery,chemo and rads. A bit nervous. Lots of emotions etc. I am trying to decide if I want to take the day off work. Maybe I will. One thing I was able to do is make sure the same doctor is working Thursday so she can read my pics. I shall keep you all posted !!
Grace 

Lumpectomy June 18,2009
4 rounds T/C DONE !
33 rounds of rads DONE !!
1 yr of Herceptin - DONE  !!!
2 yrs Tamoxafen/ taken off due to elevated liver enzymes.
oophorectomy 05/2012

March 27,2015 DX right breast
Lumpectomy April 16th 2015
To start chemo soon

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Wife of wonderful husband
and of course I am now.
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Re:The waitng room!!! - Tuesday, June 08, 2010 10:09 AM
Tricia - did you feel those VIBES coming across the ocean?  I was just about to post MAJOR SCANXIETY!!!!  I had my MRI on Friday but my appt with the surgeon for the results is not until the 15th.  TOMORROW, however, is my mammogram and needless to say, I am a wreck.  I usually get those results right away...move over and make a place for me in your waiting room!!!!!
DX 5/13/08 Clearwater, FL HER2 +
IDC Stage IIIA changed 12/2/08 to IIB Grade 3
Taxotere, Carbo & Herceptin  6/11/08
Part Mas 11/5/08 SNB neg & addl node neg - CLEAN MARGINS!
Arimidex 11/25/08  35 Rads 12/15/08
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